Why You Should Get Divorced
When is divorce a good thing?
There are many reasons.
Personal Growth
How so?
Maybe you've been stuck in a rut for years.
Maybe you've been stuck in a stagnant, comfort zone of misery.
Maybe you lost yourself in the sadness of an unhealthy existence.
Divorce can force you to re-evaluate.
To take stock of your life.
Change.
Improve.
Maybe even and here's the buzz phrase of the day...
Glow up.
It may help you to get to know yourself.
Understand who you are.
Embrace your faults.
Accept them at least and embrace your assets.
And you may even dive into a sense of self-awareness you never knew was possible.
When to get Divorced
Deciding whether or not to get a divorce is a deeply personal decision that requires careful consideration. There is no universal answer as to when it is the "right" time, as every relationship and situation is unique. However, here are some factors to consider:
Consider the seriousness of the problems
Abuse: If there is any form of abuse (physical, emotional, verbal, or financial), it is crucial to prioritise your safety and well-being. In such cases, seeking help and considering separation or divorce is important.
Will you get divorced?
Deciding whether someone is ready to get divorced is a deeply personal process and can vary greatly from individual to individual. Here are several factors to consider when reflecting on this significant life choice:
Signs You Might Be Ready for Divorce
Loss of Communication:
Effective communication is key in any relationship. If attempts to talk and resolve issues have repeatedly failed, it may signal that the relationship is no longer healthy.
DO YOU WANT TO GET DIVORCED?
People spend years ruminating over this question:
Should I stay or should I go now?
How profound was that 80s hit?
Not good enough to stay?
Not bad enough to leave?
Feeling discontented?
Dissatisfied?
Maybe even resentful?
What to do?
This can be an unbearable source of anxiety and indecision.
Here's an easy way to work out what you need to do.
Imagine you suddenly received millions in a windfall.
So much money that it made financial considerations in your circumstances irrelevant to the outcome of your potential separation.
Set your own bar.
For some that will be £5 million,
For others £500 million.
What would you do with the money?