Divorce is not inherently “right” or “wrong”. It is a legal and personal decision, shaped by individual circumstances, relationships, finances and family life. Yet many people struggle with guilt or doubt because divorce is still framed as a moral issue rather than a practical one.

In reality, divorce sits in a grey area. It can carry serious consequences, but it can also be the least damaging option when a marriage is no longer workable.

The emotional reality of divorce

Divorce is often emotionally difficult. Even when separation is mutual, it involves loss, change and uncertainty.

For children, divorce can be particularly challenging. Many experience anxiety, sadness or behavioural changes, especially where parents are in conflict. Children tend to struggle most not with the separation itself, but with ongoing arguments, instability or being caught between parents.

This can be soo scary even to think about.

Maybe you put on a brave face...

Even with yourself.

So much denial.

You pretend to your friends you are okay.

Pretend to your family everything is fine.

Maybe even pretend to your partner things are good.

But...

Secretly...

Fed up?

Bored?

Lonely in your relationship?

Dislike your spouse?

Can't stand your partner?

Repulsed by their presence?

Annoyed by their every word?

Bored by their jokes?

Annoyed by their faults?

Hate their habits?

Fed up of their family?

Really tired of looking at them?

Feeling sad?

Divorce is a challenging life event, both emotionally and financially. The complexities surrounding the division of assets, debts, and income can be overwhelming. This blog post aims to shed light on some crucial financial aspects of divorce, drawing insights from legal perspectives.

Key Takeaways:

Early Legal Advice is Essential: Consulting a divorce attorney early in the process is crucial. They can guide you on your rights, responsibilities, and the potential financial implications of your decisions.

You do not need to hire a private investigator...

Or hack into her phone to work out if something has changed.

You just need to stop,

Observe,

And pay attention to what is right in front of you.

When women cheat...

They often do not get sloppy.

They get smarter.

They edit.

They alter.

And if you are paying attention

The shift is usually right there in their...

conversation.