How to tell if your ex is Jealous
Post written by retired family law solicitor advocate.
I originally wrote this post on 23 June 2009.
Some of the comments were funny... citing that the behaviour listed was criminal.
Yes... that is so.
However, some people don't care.
They lack emotional control.
They are consumed with the desire for venegance.
The need for control.
They become obsessive.
I have experienced this both professionally and personally.
Exes for years and years still trying to cause harm.
Why?
Why do some exes behave so badly?
They are jealous.
They don't want to move on.
They want you to suffer.
They don't care what problems they cause as long as they can hurt you.
They get even more mad when you don't react.
How to deal with jealous exes.
Blocking people is the best policy.
If they want to go round criticising you to everyone who will listen.
Just cut them off.
If they criticise you online.
Injunct them.
If they attack you .
Injunct them.
If they follow you.
injunct them.
If they stalk you.
Injunct them.
Some injunctions can be for life.
Yes of course involve the police, but taking civil action is effective and the police are somewhat overwhelmed with other issues.
Be careful who you allow into your life.
This emphasises how important it is to choose with caution who you let into your life.
We all get conned.
We all fall for liars at some stage.
Some are lucky... they just get ripped off online... with a product that isn't what they claimed.
But what if you marry a conman?
What if you marry a liar?
What if you marry a cheater?
What if you marry a psychopath?
What happens when you try to disengage?
People with these issues do not respond well to rejection.
Hence... carefully assessing a person's character before you get involved with them... could save a lot of future trouble.
This post was written at a time when I was being bombarded by my partner's ex wife. She did all of the things listed.
When people behave this badly... their main objective is to stop their ex moving on.
Often they succeed because people don't want such toxicity in their lives.
https://divorcesolicitor.blogspot.com/2009/06/how-to-tell-if-your-ex-is-jealous.html
What happens when your ex tries to cause trouble?
Lots of people in this world are jealous - it is obvious to everyone except them!
Here are some examples of jealous behaviour:
Following your ex or his/her new partner.
Calling your ex's new partner.
Hitting your ex or his/her new partner.
Continually criticising your ex.
Trying to make other people dislike your ex.
Gossiping about your ex or his/her new partner.
Criticising your ex's new partner to your ex.
Getting your children to spy on your ex.
Breaking into your ex's home.
Using your children as a way to maintain acrimony with your ex.
If you tick yes to 3 or more of the above then you need to change your behaviour and try to get over your ex!!!!!
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