If you are wondering whether your husband is cheating ...

Do not bother checking his phone...

or...

Grilling his friends.

Just stop and think.

What is the one thing that changes when a man’s attention is no longer fully on his wife?

It is not always how much time he spends at work.

Or how often he looks at his phone.

Or even how much more carefully he is dressing.

The number one sign?

This is not a condemnation of the whole male population... but estimates now say that 35% of men on dating sites such as Bumble are already in a relationship.

That's a lot.

Over a third of men on dating sites are lying to you about their relationship status... apart from the few who openly admit it of course.

I have uncovered a few more clues:

Here's the Truth No One Likes to Say Out Loud

When it comes to infidelity in relationships,

many people automatically picture some mysterious stranger...

or a new, seductive person who enters the picture out of nowhere.

But in reality, the number one person that men often cheat with...

isn’t some unfamiliar fling...

it’s usually someone much closer to home...

their ex.

Yes, their ex-girlfriend or ex-wife.

Think back for a moment.

If you’ve been in a relationship where you were cheated on...

and you look closely at who he cheated with...

there’s a high chance it was someone from his past.

And this isn’t just a random coincidence...

it’s a pattern.

A surprisingly common one.

So why is this?

While cheating is never justified, understanding the underlying reasons why it happens can be helpful in addressing relationship issues. Here are 5 common reasons men cheat:

1. Lack of Emotional Intimacy:

• Feeling disconnected: Men may seek emotional connection and validation outside the relationship if they feel their emotional needs are not being met at home. This can involve feeling unheard, unappreciated, or lacking a sense of closeness with their partner.

• Difficulty expressing emotions: Some men may struggle to express their emotions openly, leading to a sense of isolation and a search for someone who understands them on a deeper level.

So Why Do Men Cheat?

The number one reason men cheat is opportunity.

If he’s on a desert island, he won’t cheat.

If he’s surrounded by attractive, interested women every day...

at work,

at the gym,

on social media...

the temptation is constant.

What men often lack isn’t love or sex at home.

It’s boundaries.

They drift.

One DM,

one “innocent” drink,

one moment of boredom...

and they’re in.