Men and their double lives
This is not a condemnation of the whole male population... but estimates now say that 35% of men on dating sites such as Bumble are already in a relationship.
That's a lot.
Over a third of men on dating sites are lying to you about their relationship status... apart from the few who openly admit it of course.
I have uncovered a few more clues:
He saves your name on his phone as a man.
Seriously?
There is no explanation for this other then he is hiding your existence from someone.
He says that he is visiting friends and there is poor phone signal so he will not be able to contact you.
This is so obvious.
Everyone has WiFi.
He has a new phone and he says it will take all evening to update so he will be out of reach.
Best to let him remain out of reach...
Permanently!
Here’s a post I wrote in 2007 on this topic:
An increasing number of women are reporting an incidence of men deceiving them with the double lives syndrome. No longer content with simply having an affair a greater buzz is to be acquired by pretending each girl is the only one.
CLUES:
1. Over the top flowery text messages.
2. His phone goes off radar after 7pm or he always calls on his way home.
3. You don't know his home address or home phone number.
4. He manipulates arguments late at night and storms out.
5. He has a hobby which takes him away from home.
6. You haven't met any of his family or he claims they are all dead.
7. Something doesn't add up - he is still in business with his ex partner or he has left his bike/dog at her house.
8. When on the phone to you he suddenly hangs up and claims there is a problem with his phone/battery.
9. He suggests impossible dates - he invites you over when you have your best friend from South Africa staying, he asks you to go to Paris with him for the weekend when he knows you are working.
10. Eventually you are invited to visit his flat which he shares with his mate and there are none of his personal possessions on display. Most men are untidy, so a pristine room suggests he doesn't actually live there.
Next time your intuition warns you that something does not add up - believe it, and next time a man asks you for your phone number exchange home numbers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CONTACT US
FREE CHEATING CHECKLIST