Thought about mediation?
Most people think mediation means sitting in a room being forced to agree.
It does not.
Mediation is not marriage counselling.
It is not therapy.
It is not someone telling you to “be nice” and give in.
A mediator is neutral.
Their job is to help you both discuss practical arrangements and see whether agreement is possible.
Children.
Money.
The house.
Pensions.
Maintenance.
School arrangements.
Holidays.
Who pays what.
Who lives where.