If you are divorcing a narcissist, you already know it does not feel normal.

Everything becomes harder than it needs to be.

A simple conversation becomes a fight.

A basic request becomes a power struggle.

A deadline becomes another opportunity to delay.

A child arrangement becomes a battleground.

Financial disclosure becomes a game of hide and seek.

And somehow, they still manage to act like they are the reasonable one.

That is why I created my £20 Divorcing a Narcissist Guide.

Because people need more than vague encouragement.

They need to know what they are dealing w

Divorcing a narcissist is not like an ordinary divorce.

Because you are not just separating from someone.

You are separating from control.

Drama.

Blame.

Manipulation.

Delay.

And often, a person who would rather destroy everything than be seen to lose.

That is why normal divorce advice is not always enough.

Because normal advice assumes both people are capable of being reasonable.

That both people want a sensible outcome.

That both people understand compromise.

That both people want to save costs.

But when you are dealing with someone toxic, that may not be true.

Settle or Fight?

When you divorce, you’ve got two choices when it comes to the finances:

1. Reach an agreement.

2. Fight it out.

In England and Wales, around 80% of divorcing couples reach an agreement without going to court. But how they do it varies a lot.

How People Settle