By an Ex-Divorce Solicitor

You suspect your husband is cheating.

You have that sinking feeling in your stomach.

Something is off.

He is not quite himself.

You are not imagining it...

and you are not paranoid.

You are reacting to changes...

and often...

Your gut gets there before your brain does.

The first thing to do is stop spiraling.

The second is to get smart.

Here is your step-by-step plan for what to do next.

1. Pay Attention to the Patterns

Here's the Truth No One Likes to Say Out Loud

When it comes to infidelity in relationships,

many people automatically picture some mysterious stranger...

or a new, seductive person who enters the picture out of nowhere.

But in reality, the number one person that men often cheat with...

isn’t some unfamiliar fling...

it’s usually someone much closer to home...

their ex.

Yes, their ex-girlfriend or ex-wife.

Think back for a moment.

If you’ve been in a relationship where you were cheated on...

and you look closely at who he cheated with...

there’s a high chance it was someone from his past.

And this isn’t just a random coincidence...

it’s a pattern.

A surprisingly common one.

So why is this?