Divorcing a narcissist? Do not walk into it blind.

Divorcing a narcissist is not like an ordinary divorce.

Because you are not just separating from someone.

You are separating from control.

Drama.

Blame.

Manipulation.

Delay.

And often, a person who would rather destroy everything than be seen to lose.

That is why normal divorce advice is not always enough.

Because normal advice assumes both people are capable of being reasonable.

That both people want a sensible outcome.

That both people understand compromise.

That both people want to save costs.

But when you are dealing with someone toxic, that may not be true.